Tuesday, August 9, 2011
Fight with friend! Should I feel guilty?
Oh I know this is tough sweetheart, but it sounds to me like your friend is behaving really badly.. how can anyone get other people to do as SHE wants? She sounds vile, and they sound weak and stupid. You sound a nice girl, and if you can just keep your head up and really pretend that you haven't even noticed the silent treatment, smile as naturally as you can fake(!) and believe me, that will puzzle their stupid little heads off.. you see, people who resort to this kind of behaviour are just weak little nothings.. they aren't happy confident girs, are they, if they have to try and control others by bullying, You look around you, who are the most successful, happy, confident people? The ones who LIKE THEMSELVES. Not in a big headed loud way, but just a quiet self urance that gives a message to everyone that they are happy with themselves, and bullying won't hurt them, because they are a better person than the bully... and bullies are cowards and usually deeply unhappy inside.. Please don;t feel guility, you were having fun, no-one got killed, for heavens sake! I'm guessing you are from the USA, I'm british, but here in schools, there are pupil (student) counsellors available to talk to... maybe you should go and see one of them? Please don;t be unhappy about this, you sound a good kid, better then the ones who are causing you sadness.. hope this helps... (It's 5.30am here, can't sleep because the dog got me up 2 hours ago... its VERY cold and snowing here in the UK)
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